Why do single women go after married men for relationships?

More unmarried women who seem to be attracted to married men, and deliberately seeking men out for seduction.

For context, for more than seven days in a popular relationship expert, Joro Olumofin‘s Instagram blog a few months ago, I witnessed reports upon reports rolling in, personal accounts underlining the commonness of the practice and proving how it seems to be the ‘goal’ for young, single women to have married partners as opposed to dating a single man like them .

The first obvious reason why this relationship seems to develop logically must be for the financial benefits associated with the romantic affair.

Instagram users share their personal experiences on Joro’s Instagram page during the period mentioned above. Being single and unable to get a girl despite several attempts, he got a ring and put it on his wedding finger. Like magic, girls get attracted to him and give him sex as cheap as you can imagine.

“… That wedding ring represents the success and stability that these lazy Nigerian girls love,” anonymous user wrote. Whether he is 100% sincere is another thing, I admit.

Regardless, the idea, apparently, for many women who deliberately date a married man, is a young man of his own age who has not found his feet and will find it difficult to meet the outlandish demands they make to finance unsustainable, opulent. lifestyle. But guess who has more than enough to sponsor a trip abroad, super-expensive weaves and all aspects of the glamorous life of this fine woman?

So the need to sustain an expensive lifestyle regardless of low economic status is one of the reasons why.

Another reason for this may be the need for independence; free to enjoy sexual satisfaction and all the other pleasures of a relationship without correct are in a relationship.

“I know babies who date married people just for sex,” said Dairo, photographer in Lagos.

“He said he doesn’t want the clinginess that normal girlfriends often do. He wants to keep partying and live as he sees fit and not change and bend to accommodate some people in his life.

“They meet, have sex, hang out a little, fool around, laugh a lot; after the married man returns to his family and he goes to a life he likes more.

“I, like him, many women want both the benefits of a relationship and independence; something that can be difficult with a boyfriend or some other single people who may be able to feel the feelings after some sex.

The relative detachment that married men with illegitimate children often feel is perfect and makes this freedom that Dairo speaks of.

Come on, who is happy, believes that there is also a belief among women that married men, because of experience, know how to treat women better. For some other babes, this is a point of attraction.

Having been with a married woman for a while and being a man in his mid-thirties and older will enable him to not only be more financially loaded, but also very experienced in treating women with more care and body for more pleasure.

Reasons for dating married people, no matter how logical they are to those proffering them, still do not, and will never be enough, to justify the practice of dating someone else. And of course, it won’t hold water as an excuse for a married man who also cheats on his wife.

Some may say that karma will show up at your doorstep later, but there is no such thing as 50-50. In the meantime though, face a war of conscience.