Raven Ross ready to share what happened to his ex-fiancé SK Alagbadacheating scandal!
For those who haven’t followed the story, the exes fell in love in pods during season 3 of Love Is Blind – well, at least one of them! When SK and Raven arrive on their wedding day, they break their hearts by ending their relationship at the altar. The two reconciled after the show ended and even got back together! But the relationship soon crumbled again when the two women moved on TikTok to accuse SK of cheating on Raven with them. He denied the allegations and said he had hired a lawyer to fight back.
While the pilates instructor has remained relatively quiet about the situation, except for some comments on social media and on Netflix After the Altar special, he finally reveals everything that happened in it Viall file podcast Thursday! So remember, Love Is Blind fans, because there’s a lot to cover!
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According to Raven, it all started when the filming for the first part of the series ended in the summer of 2021, and SK decided to travel to Europe after he left her at the altar. Although the 34-year-old invited him on the getaway because they were on good terms and communicated with each other every day, Raven decided not to go. However, he later discovers that one of the women he allegedly had an affair with (Hannah Beth) went on holiday with him. when Nick Viall asked if SK “knows you’re too busy to say yes” to the trip, he said, “100 percent,” adding:
“They extended the trip, stayed together in London. … We’re not together. It’s not a lie, it’s a lie.”
So at that time, they weren’t together yet. However, Raven noted that she wished SK had told her that her ex-boyfriend would be there — instead of her learning about TikTok a year later.
Fast forward to February 2022, the duo is trying to make it up, but it’s not official yet. Raven goes to SK in San Francisco – and that’s when she finds something suspicious in her place. When the reality star opened her bathroom closet, she found a mysterious towel with makeup and hair all over it:
“I went to San Francisco — I think it was the first time [going to visit him at school] – we are serious, but we are realistic. We’re not, like, official. … We didn’t move in together until, like, July. He’s gone to school, I’m going to take a shower, I’m looking for a towel. I opened the cabinet under the sink and there was all this stuff shoved in there and I saw a towel and I pulled the towel out. … There was makeup on all the towels and hair on all the towels. I was like, ‘That’s weird.’ … But I knew in my head, we weren’t officially dating.
We wouldn’t blame him if he was upset about the possibility of another woman there since it seemed like they were looking to get back together again! When Raven asks about the findings, she remembers SK being hesitant and then saying that it was just from the turmeric mask. Seriously, grandma??! Raven said:
“I should have known [then] this is someone who will lie through their teeth to try to make you believe it based on who you know you think you are with. Of course I don’t believe it, but I want to believe it.”
You may remember, the woman who passed by @emmwho9 came forward to say SK was in a relationship with her after they met on a dating app in California. When the social media user posted the receipt on TikTok, Raven saw several texts from SK in March 2022, where he sent Raven and the woman the same message about their trip to Austin:
“It was literally verbatim. The same selfie. The same words.”
Raven points out that SK had “a little bit” of what went down a few months later, and he insists that it was just a one-off. However, the fitness guru knew something wasn’t right based on his behavior when he confronted her:
“It’s a thread throughout. Anytime there’s a moment like this, there’s always doubt. He didn’t answer the phone for a long time … for an hour or two.
In April, around her 30th birthday, Raven felt “even” and officially became a couple again. He took her to her hometown of New Orleans and stayed with her mother:
“[I was] ready to do it right outside of Love Is Blind.”
But less than a month later, Raven said that SK took a second woman with him on a couple’s vacation to Mexico:
“They all went on a couples trip a week after he and I went on a birthday trip to New Orleans. And literally the next weekend, [he] went to Cabo with him [and] said he was at school all the time.”
OMG!!! The messed up…
To make matters worse, he and SK also went on a couple trip to Mexico together Alexa Alfia and Brennan Lemiux also Colleen Reed and Matt Bolton in June 2022. And you will never guess what Raven said at the time. He claims:
“He said to me, ‘I’ve never been to Mexico before.'”
WTF?!!
Two months later, Raven tells Nick that she is engaged. And just when you can’t think it will get worse… At the time of the engagement, he alleged that SK was planning a vacation to Miami with his second woman. wow Despite proposing to Raven in front of the camera, SK allegedly asked the producers to remove their involvement from the show. Raven said:
“Apparently after we got engaged, he backed off, went back to the producer and started, like, asking her out. [Producers said], ‘We thought you knew, and we thought you were broken up.’ … We were filming the reunion and he went off the grid, remember? No one could find him, no one could catch him, everyone was afraid. Come to find out, he locked himself in the van with one of the producers and was like, ‘You have to shoot the engagement. You should take the engagement out.’”
Intense!!
Cut to November 2022 when the explosive cheating allegations come out. Raven says she found SK’s “happy birthday” message that he sent to the woman twice the day before Love Is Blind premiered in October. Then, the woman’s video came out:
“When the second girl came out on TikTok, she was home. So we were together at this point, physically in our apartment in Dallas. and [we] just sitting in the kitchen and on the phone both of them started going crazy.
Noticing that SK was silent, he continued:
“Because he does that thing where he has to ghost for a while and make up a lie.”
Raven pointed out that the second woman’s accusations were “more damaging” because they were together before. But it was when he released another clip with text and photos from a more recent interaction that was the final nail in the coffin for him. Raven remembers:
“My heart trembled. That point was the first time I started using the words, ‘We’re going to make it. You’ve exceeded my limits, because it’s a lie and you know we’re together, you can’t argue.’”
She said that SK then told her that the second woman was extorting her and refused to delete her TikTok video unless she gave him $300,000. He also asked Raven if she would lie to her fans about the cheating scandal. Looking back, Raven tells Nick “there was a lot of manipulation and gaslighting,” adding:
“He’s really worried about saving his career and his face. And he wants to get a lawyer involved, like, make the lawsuit go away so it doesn’t look bad for him. I’m at home listening to him on the phone with his lawyer all day every day. He’s like, ‘This for my career.’ That’s literally what he says all the time.
When asked if there were any “red flags” he overlooked, Raven said there were many he missed, saying:
“There is definitely this trend – and it’s difficult because it’s a part that’s still being processed, maybe there’s an ego inside me – it’s very difficult in the way I see it. It got to the point, in August actually, I was upset. Actually we’ve been living together in the summer, we have an apartment and whatever I wear, of course.
In fact, SK allegedly told him that he was never “attracted” to her:
“Then send me a picture [of another woman on Instagram] – of course these girls don’t look like me. … I was very sad, and I even started telling him, ‘You don’t like me, you don’t like the way I look.’ … And when all these girls come out and a lot of critics are like, ‘Raven, they don’t even like girls who look like you. He never liked you to begin with.’ I was like, ‘Now you know that’s something I brought up.’ … Finally, he admitted [and] said, ‘You’re not my type. I’m not attracted to you.’”
WHAT?!!!
Are they in contact or not since breaking up? Raven revealed they spoke two weeks ago – and she had the audacity to ask if she’d want to rekindle their romance after all!
“He approached me. … He said, ‘I’m so worried about myself and protecting myself that I don’t care about your feelings.’ He admitted that at first, that was nice to hear but it didn’t change anything. He apologized, and of course, he was like, ‘I like working on things.'”
Nerve…
However, SK won’t get his wish as it looks like Raven has moved on from him! I hope this guy never goes through the same thing as SK. They definitely deserve better now!
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