Being naughty can be great and fantasy and role playing can be part of a fun journey between friends.
Aviv Ben Menachem, founder of Realized Fantasy, site that facilitates bedroom play, said that there is no doubt that play adds not only fun between the sheets, but some other, sometimes unexpected aspects to the relationship.
A touch of role playing can bring a whole new level of excitement and satisfaction to the experience. Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been with your partner for years, joining in on intimate moments can improve communication, build trust, and rekindle the relationship between your partners.
A fantasy realized facilitate this experience, whether for a novice or an experienced actor in the theater of sensuality. Menachem developed the site to enhance and guide fantasy and role play for couples, couples or combinations of relationships.
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8 role play questions with Menachem
How about that idea online facilitated role play arrive?
“My husband and I came back from vacation, and to continue the spirit and energy we experienced, we played the role of strangers on the beach. It was fun and encouraged me to think more about roleplaying and how it can be better. I think that with music , the right atmosphere and setting, the roleplay experience can be more realistic and fun. That’s when I started looking for how fantasy with immersive audio can be introduced into the couple’s bedroom.
Do you think imagination is an important part of sex?
“I think a large part of the sexual health industry focuses on the body and not enough on the mind and imagination. There are all kinds of new sex toys, erection pills, and creams, but there are some companies that focus on the imagination as a tool that enhances sex through fantasy and role playing. I think that in the future this will change, and we will see more companies exploring ways to enhance sex creatively through our thoughts and imaginations.
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What role do you play for your partner?
“I think role-playing gives couples the opportunity to explore and challenge different parts of their personalities. Shy people can be more open and playful, controlling partners can play vulnerable characters and vice versa. Fantasy allows us to fight self-consciousness, leave routine and experience yourself again.
Where do you start with role playing?
Introducing role play to sex turns ordinary sex into erotic sex. There is a famous equation that says: ‘Erotica is equal to sex multiplied by the imagination.’ Our mind is the most important organ for sex, and creating the imagination is the key to taking sex to an erotic level.
Couples can start by choosing any character they want to look for from hundreds of programs on our site, record a few character lines woven into the story, get into bed and play a fantasy program together. Our program doesn’t require makeup or special props (but it’s definitely recommended!) so it’s really easy to step into a new identity and experience.
What are the dos and don’ts of role playing?
“Start slowly, no need to go shopping for costumes or special props. Imagination is the key. Relive the experience you enjoyed on a holiday or special occasion. Don’t feel too much pressure to perform as a pro actor, it’s all for fun. Talk about what arouses you and what doesn’t. Communication is key. Take turns choosing or starting a roleplay.”
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How do you get through any kind shame?
“Do it step by step. Start by changing the ambience in your bedroom. Play oriental music to create an Eastern vibe, play forest rain to imagine a cabin in the forest.
Once you feel more comfortable with the changes – you can introduce more aspects of the role play – audio programs, roleplay costumes or anything that enhances your imagination.
I think role playing is exciting for couples who want to spice it up and break off from their routine. Partnerships of all kinds can benefit from role play and fantasy, whether it’s a long-term relationship, a new lover, or any relationship.
Is it a talisman, or is it more than that?
“I don’t consider role-playing as a talisman, but there are certainly many talismans that are included in role-playing. Think of sex as food. How often do we try a delicious new recipe for dinner when it’s just a weekday and nothing “special” is happening? Rarely.
Instead, we’re ready to pack mac and cheese on the couch. It’s a routine type. But role playing? It’s a full service dinner in Paris. For many people, imagination and physicality are often separated during the sexual experience. However, when the mind/body connection is established through imagination and role play, you can experience sex with heightened sensitivity, passion, pleasure, and meaning.
Erotica awakens your sexuality by blurring the lines between reality and fantasy, the known and the unknown.
How does role playing differ from other sexual endeavors like BDSM (master/slave), cosplay and other more involved engagements?
“All these activities are a type of role play, with more extreme and specific forms. Role play ranges from subtle changes in the ambience to complete costume makeup and BDSM. Couples should be free to explore the spectrum of roles and choose the one that suits them best.
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