I’m in my early 30s. I am single. However, there is a guy I’ve been dating for a long time. I love him so much. However, I had sex with his brother 10 years ago. His brother and I made money twice, and then we became friends. We always talk once a week or so.
Then, I met my sister at a family party. We talked and texted that night, only to hook up later that same night. Now, six months later, the whole family knows. My brother kept asking his friends what they thought of our relationship.
Now, that’s just a big headache. However, my sister and I really care. We really don’t see it as a big deal. I stopped calling my sister, but she still calls and wants to hang out with me. I was sick of going back and forth with the family, because they told me what they said behind my back. Something that was supposed to be a fun fling went wrong. –
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I suspect him for no reason
I am a 27-year-old man. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about a year. He is 25. However, before our relationship, we were best friends for about two years. During the time that I have known him, he has never acted badly, never cheated on me, to my knowledge, never dated anyone else. Never. I never did anything either. I’m usually a very loyal person, whether it’s a relationship or a friendship. However, I am also an insecure, jealous, protective, and somewhat controlling person. I have had experiences in the past, when I was in what you would call a serious relationship, where my partner cheated several times and I didn’t know until the relationship ended. This is the root of jealousy and trust issues. My question is: How can I heal my anxiety and anger? How can it be trusted without getting hurt in the end?