No one applauds a naughty child; it is seen as a bad trait. When people look respectful, it is attractive and gives him/her a warm and eloquent look. Parents want their children to grow up to be well-rounded adults, so they should be respected.
As a parent, it is a prerequisite to follow your child because it is the nature of Africans to respect even in words, greetings, behavior and reactions.
To teach and encourage respect in their children, parents must lead by example. Children often watch the adults around them, looking for clues that set expectations. If they see parents and teachers respecting each other, they will do the same.
As children grow up, they need to talk about respect. Talk about how we treat others. Focus on the words we use often (yes, ma’am; yes, sir; please and thank you) and the attitudes we portray. Explain the expectation of respect for others shown in attitude and behavior.
Teach your child the concept of turn taking as an expression of respect. This is a skill that is needed in all aspects of life. Helping children to wait patiently for their turn to speak can encourage respectful listening. Encouraging children to wait their turn or turn to play instills patience and respect.
It also teaches the politeness of the language contained in the five mantra words (thank you, beg your pardon, beg your pardon) children have been taught from a young age. This should become an important part of your vocabulary as you continue to build it.
Don’t spoil your child. Every child deserves attention, but you cannot meet all their demands. Learn to say ‘No’ before it’s too late and your child becomes an adult. Don’t ignore all his requests just because he is the only child.
As a parent say ‘sorry’ when you do something wrong. You can’t get respect if you don’t respect them. Let children also apologize for their mistakes because it helps them learn to respect others.
Parents should try to respect polite behavior. When children show good manners and respect others, give them special praise for the positive choices they make.
It is important to teach your children about values in life so that they don’t judge you or others. This way, you will give him positive discipline. Don’t make people materialistic. Expensive toys and gadgets can wait but manners should be fun and enjoyable for all. Only then will your friends and family be happy.
Your child needs to learn not to hurt others. He should be a caring person who is sensitive to the feelings of others. Also, make sure they spend some time with their grandparents, because parents know a lot.
Teach them the values of respect and make it clear that if they want to succeed in life and be happy, they must learn to care and share. Respect is earned! Time and consistency along with deliberate teaching effort will impart important character traits to children.